About Olivia
Hello, I’m Olivia! I am so grateful that you are here.
I am a mother, a wife, a woman of color, and a social worker of over 12 years. My goal in life is to empower and transform women who feel unseen, lonely, unloved, and stuck to find a more connected inner self and step into their authentic life filled with joy, passion, and purpose.
I can relate to living a life of feeling unseen, lonely, unloved, and stuck despite having my children, my husband, a great career, and a beautiful home. From the outside, I had it all put and snugged together into a beautiful red bow, but from the inside, I felt an empty void I couldn’t explain at the time.
However, my life changed when I started my inner healing journey. I began to increase my self-awareness and recognize and work through the blockages that had been holding me back from living the life I deserve to live – a life filled with love, worthiness, and boldness.
And I want the same for you! I want you to feel internal freedom, empowerment, and true transformation to live the life you are destined to live.
You are meant to live an exceptional life!
Let me share my story with you!
I grew up in an unstructured and chaotic home with pain and suffering. As a young child, I felt unloved, unseen, and unworthy. Although I had four other siblings, growing up I didn’t feel connected to them and always thought that I was the “black sheep of the family.”
Despite having a roof over our heads and food on the table, we were below the poverty level.
At the age of 12, my life was crushed when I lost my mother in a car accident. The day of her funeral was the day my heart closed, and I felt a wave of immense anger and hatred toward the world. From that day on, the walls went up, and I was conscious of who I allowed into my life, as it was a learned mechanism to keep myself safe from the outside world.
Emotionally and mentally, I detached from my family, and at the age of 16, I left home to venture out into the world to live with a family that I felt part of. I learned to survive by shoving down all the difficult and painful emotions of sadness, anger, and loneliness.
The anger I felt within got me into uncomfortable situations to the point where people didn’t want to be around me and were cautious of what they shared. But I didn’t know any better. All I knew was that I was not proud of my behavior.
On paper, I appeared happy and successful. In high school, I excelled academically, and right after, I attended a university to receive my bachelor’s in social work. I then married and had three beautiful children while working and purchasing a home and obtaining my master’s in social work 15 years later. However, I continued to feel empty from within and only followed society’s expectations to feel valuable and worthy.
One day, my entire life came to a breaking point when my then three-year-old son was removed from daycare because of my ongoing destructive behavior toward the daycare provider. I remember feeling lost, stuck, and hatred towards myself. I also felt like the worst mother in the world.
I’d had enough!!! Something needed to change. I felt at my worst and desperate for a change.
Being a life-long learner and divine intervention led me to the podcast, “The Adult Chair®.”
Everything began to make sense. I now understood I was living and navigating the world with the emotional intelligence of a 12-year-old, suppressing and expressing every feeling that I had been holding on for decades.
I engrossed myself in the podcast, listening to all the episodes, joining the monthly membership, and working with an Adult Chair® Coach. The Adult Chair model has granted me the tools that I needed to start shifting every inner facet of my life and making the change I so desperately desired. It also taught me to rise up and be bold in a world in which I felt small, unseen, and like I didn’t matter.
Currently, I am a work in progress, and I am loving every minute of it and wouldn’t have it any other way.
I no longer feel anger toward the world, and the walls that once were up have now come down.
I also reconnected with my family and have a great relationship with my siblings and father. I now recognize that what I experienced in childhood was meant to be part of my healing journey and what I need to share with the outside world.
I am patient, happier, and able to regulate my nervous system. I am making conscious choices, but most IMPORTANTLY, I am giving myself and my children the gift to stop the cycle of generational trauma.
I am creating the life I desire and am meant to live, and you can too! Let me show you how!
As a social worker of 12+ years, it’s in my heart and soul to help those looking for a better way to live, to help women who feel lost and are struggling emotionally and mentally to find their way back home. My mission and passion is to be part of your healing journey by teaching you empowering, inspiring, and transformational tools to be your best authentic YOU!!!
Allow yourself the chance to get to know yourself and love yourself.
Because divine intervention guided you here, I know you are ready for this exciting journey of soul searching. We can venture on this journey together.
I am elated about the transformation that will take place.
I see you! I hear you! And I stand with you!
Much Love,
Feeling empowered moves mountains! Are you ready to step into your most authentic and powerful self?
I offer a free 20-minute consultation to all new clients as we begin our journey together to ensure it’s the right fit.